if you were to choose between someone you love and someone who loves you (and at the most, the feeling is plain ok for the opposite of the loving one) which would you choose and why
I'd choose someone I love. Because I would always go into something with honesty and truth. I would not get into a relationship simply because I get off the attention I am given. I rather get into a relationship because I sincerely, truly love the other person... and if the other person needs time to realize how much the feelings are mutual, then so be it.