Isha and I have decided that after 2 years and 8 months of being together, it's time to figure out who and where we are separately. She has been in Canada a year and a half, and that's a year and a half of physical distance, and we have found that we're growing into different people because of different circumstances.
We've decided to give each other space, and maybe, someday, God willing, find each other again. Or not. A lot of you are friends of us both; please know, this isn't a bitter breakup, there are no sides, we still consider you all our friends (and this is not mutually exclusive either)
Some of you may choose to judge this negatively. That's your prerogative. But not your business to begin with.
Yun lang po. 
Paalam na, aking mahal. Kay hirap sabihin.
Sorry to hear that Tobie. Don't worry, we're still around.
ReplyDeleteWishing you the best Tobie. And Isha as well. Hope you two can successfully figure yourselves out as two separate individuals. :)
ReplyDeleteAll the best, Tobie. :)
ReplyDeleteMy best hopes for you guys.
ReplyDeleteI'm really sorry to hear that.
ReplyDeleteOn one hand, I can comprehend part of the difficulty having gone through a major long distance in the past. And yes, my breaking point was about the same time as yours--one year and a half. It's very easy to understand the growing apart business. It was pretty bad, I had to have friends come over and spend the night--not really to talk but just to be physically "there" for a while.
On the other hand, I still feel that love finds it way, even through things like this. I'm sometimes this strange, optimistic creature that feels the universe adjusts so things work out for the best.
So here's wish from Tia Dalma for your happiness, for Isha's happiness and well, I'll be a bit selfish and say my happiness too (and the happiness of the one I had to part with because of distance) and that of everyone who's feeling disconnected and disjointed these days.
Got a playlist for moments like now? I do...
sad to hear it tobs. but you know, things do happen for a reason.
ReplyDeletestill hope for the best... take care you two. :-)
Big hug to my dear Tobie.
ReplyDeleteNature's first green is gold, Her hardest hue to hold. Her early leaf's a flower; But only so an hour. Then leaf subsides to leaf. So Eden sank to grief, So dawn goes down to day. Nothing gold can stay. -- Robert Frost
ReplyDeleteawwwwwwwwwwwwww. :-( praying for you both.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck to both of you.
ReplyDeleteHug for you Tobie. :( It's a sad read for me, but things will work out in the end. Hope for your happiness, as well as Isha's.
ReplyDeleteam sad for you and isha bitoe. . . but i wish you both the best and all the happiness in the world. luvluv u my friend.
ReplyDeleteawww.... sigh.... a bug hammy hug to you, dearest... Whatever you guys think is best for you guys is just fine with me... ^_^
ReplyDeletebest of luck. Friends will be here for yah
ReplyDeletehhmmmm.......sad to hear that anyweiz if you and ish are really meant to be......in time.....in GOSs will......tc alwaya mmwahhh....
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